Lulu has 4 sisters.
We don't see each other everyday. Sometimes, weeks pass before we meet up. But we do talk on the phone or drop a mail or something like that.
If one of us was making a very important decision, the other would rally to support.
Lulu finds it very hard to believe that in the case of these two brothers, when the younger brother is making such an important decision [well, it is an important decision at least for the family and their party], advise, support and recommendation was not made face to face or through phone calls, but via sms-es.
Well, Lulu just has to accept that not everyone is like Lulu