There was a question in a study that Lulu is doing which went like this,
How does pleasing one's neighbour [which means everyone] for his good differ from "people pleasing"?
"People pleasing" persons do it with a motive of pleasing and glamour-ing themselves. They put themselves into the spotlight under the pretext of helping someone. They want to be seen as kind and generous, but in reality, are usually selfish and selfcentered.
"Pleasing one's neighbour" persons are those who have the neighbour's heart in mind. They do it for their neighbour, not themselves. Sometimes, it is at a cost to themself. They have a heart of gold and are as selfless as it gets.
No prizes for guessing which category these ministers and their wives fall under.